Let’s start with the question every woman in a situationship has secretly Googled at least once. “Can this actually become a real relationship?” Maybe you’ve been talking for months. Maybe you’ve met each other’s friends. Maybe you’ve spent birthdays together, know each other’s coffee orders and text so often that…

There is a particular kind of shame that can show up after a toxic relationship. It doesn’t always come while you’re in it. Sometimes it arrives later. You’re finally away from the arguments, the confusion, the emotional exhaustion, the constant wondering about where you stand, and instead of feeling completely…

She stared at the message for longer than she cared to admit. There was nothing particularly cruel about it. That almost made it worse. “I don’t think we’re a good fit, but I wish you all the best.” No insults. No dramatic argument. No betrayal she could point to and…

You know that moment when your friend calls you after a breakup and says, “Please don’t go back to that man”? She has probably said it before. You’ve probably said it too. Because you know the relationship wasn’t good for you. You remember the arguments. You remember crying over things…

When someone is going through a heartbreak, people tend to throw the words ‘get over it.’ But they don’t tell you how to get over something that wrecked you emotionally.  Time without putting any effort in it does nothing for you.  And I’m going to show you simple and practical…

For you to be thinking about dating means you’re ready. Okay, maybe not exactly ready, but a part of you is healed enough to consider it. You only want to make sure you do it right this time, or maybe you’re lonely. Whatever the case, I hope these points help…

You meet someone who says all the right things. He tells you he’s looking for something serious. He says he’s tired of games, wants to settle down and is finally ready for a healthy relationship. You breathe a little easier. Finally, someone who wants the same things you do. The…

Let’s be honest for a second. Sometimes asking for clarity feels scarier than the uncertainty itself. You’ve replayed the conversation in your head a hundred times. You’ve practised what you’re going to say while washing the dishes, driving home from work or staring at the ceiling at midnight. Every version…